Doctor or Engineer?
If I first ask you this question!!
What will be your answer?
In this world, this two profession is highly
demand.
If you ask a child, what do they want to be
in the future?
I am sure they will answer these two. And why
not? This two profession is more attractive than others. (Not disrespect other profession).
Doctors save lives of peoples, so that
profession is much honorable than engineer, There is no doubt and they deserve
their honor for their fidelity and caring.
But Engineers?
Engineers can make your dreams.
Look at today's world, Technology touches all
the sectors, our life has become very easy, enjoyable and safe by using technology,
and all the creation by engineers.
So there is no chance to take someone narrow, so
in that case the next generation will be driven to these two site, no doubt.
But how much understanding a couple relationship
between doctor and engineer?
Many people have said that the relation does not
lasting if the profession is not same, specially doctors and engineers.
Because these two profession is equally
important but they are completely different type, cause a medical student has
to memorize everything, and this is their method.
Other hand an Engineering students have nothing
to memorize (Except some of
non-engineering subjects). Their main thing
is understanding and work with creativity from their self.
So they have different mentality since their
student life. And this effects is in their relationship/married life.
There are many arguments!!
Who is best?
Who is important?
Who is more supreme in their society?
And to the end many controversy!!
I did not believe when I first heard it, even I
still do not believe that they cannot be good couples.
But I believe that sometimes there may be such
problems, because I have seen one of my brother and his wife, who have had a
quarrel with their professions after their three-year married life.
Their understanding of all other things is very
good and romantic also, but when they talk about their professions, they cannot
be same!!
If they start talking about their profession or
work, they defend themselves on their own way, and the problem is here
because a doctor thinking power does not correspond to an engineer in
general.
Likewise, engineers cannot match the doctor
things.
And that is why many people says that if they do
not have the same profession, then there is trouble in married life.
By the way, I'm not experienced about this
topic, I just released the sound of my mind, and that does not mean that
if the profession is different
Then do not be happy in a
married life.
Even there are a lot of people who are happier
in their married life in different professions.
And best wishes for all the couples, whether it's same or different professions.